Freaky Friday Obligations!

I’m happily married and enjoy an active sex life. I think my husband would say the same. However lately, he’s been getting kinkier in bed. He’s interested in entering doors that have never been opened if you catch my drift. I’m not interested in anal sex. But because I’m his partner, I feel obligated to play along. I’m torn…no pun intended.

Stefan Says…

It appears you’re in a healthy relationship with someone you love and trust. If this is an ‘adventure’ he’d like to explore, I say do-si-do with your partner. If you try it once, end up not liking it, explain to your loving husband you’re just not into it. But…maybe you will enjoy it. If you do choose to go ‘there’, make sure to do your research on how to make this experience as comfortable for you as possible. Good Luck!

My Momma Says…

Remember, the operative word is "consenting" adults. Yes, as a married partner you want to be there for your significant other. However, your feelings and desires are as important. Bring this subject up when the two of you are in a "neutral" zone (not in bed). Tell him your level of discomfort. You need not justify your position ( no pun intended). Your feelings are your feelings.